Well as you know this is not necessarily the place to be if you want informed comments based on clear facts. There are plenty of people far better than me who can provide this and I find it very informative and interesting to read.
Here at Happy Vally we can only really cope with the here and now and what we think will happen based on what we know and an unshakable belief that Charlton Athletic will win every game from now until eternity. Totally deluded I know but if you don't believe then what have you got?
Now I'm not saying it isn't tough here in this dream like world, because if you believe that you will win every game then any defeat or in fact draw can be like a hammer blow to your heart. It takes an awful lot of effort to pick yourself up and carry on but carry on you must.
We may have the best manager in the division, we may have the worst, we may have the most money to spend or we may have the least but whatever it is, we here in HV have absolutely no idea, so we can only really comment on each game as it happens, each player as they arrive or each point that is dropped or gloriously gained.
Now I am not so presumptuous as to think I can tell people how they should be, why they should remain positive at all times or even how they should support our club but as an aid that you can take or leave as you see fit here are my five most important rules when supporting our lads.
- Always, always, always go to a game believing we will win. You won't always be right (honestly!) but believe me "If you think you're beaten, you are" http://guidezone.e-guiding.com/jmif_you_think.htm
- Never boo the players, with very few exceptions (and there are always those) every single player who pulls on that shirt is doing their best. It may not be their best in your eyes and it may not be good enough but it is almost certainly the best they have got on that day, we are all human.
- Never and I mean never, leave a game before that final whistle has been blown. You just never know (most of the time!) it could all go spectacularly right and there is no better feeling than Dennis in The Last Minute. After all how can you complain about the players if you are not prepared to put the effort in yourself.
- Remember this is just like a marriage except divorce is not really possible, "Till death do us part, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer ......."
- Finally, and you cannot under estimate the importance of this, when you blow out those candles there is only really one thing you can wish for!!
Remember
The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.